The discovery of the female G-spot caused a real sensation at one time, although there is still no confidence that it exists. At the same time, only a few people know about a similar men’s zone, but every guy definitely has one and it’s much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course, absolute trust, because not every girl will have access to the most intimate.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women, who have to look for a mysterious zone literally at random, guys don’t have to guess about its location. The "G" point in men, behind which the well-known prostate is hidden, is located on the front wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. To the touch it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or chestnut, and at the moment of excitement it swells.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (usually there is no hair in this area). For some guys, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your spouse or girlfriend to caress the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like caressing the G-spot?
The sensations from prostate stimulation can be very different. Some guys experience incredible pleasure (literally - to the point of tears), for others it helps maintain arousal, for others the pressure on the G-spot seems unpleasant and even painful. But it’s definitely worth a try so as not to deprive your man of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or use of force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of the area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, release can be delayed.
- The impact in the process forces more blood into the penis, making its pulsation more powerful and more pleasant.
- Strong rhythmic pressure imitates the process of contraction of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the final phase of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to caress the G-spot at the moment of achieving maximum erection, as soon as the body of the penis swells along its entire length. If the sensations are unpleasant or unnoticeable, you should wait a little. If at the moment of full arousal there is still no reaction, perhaps this area in a particular man is not considered erogenous. In this case, it is better to focus on caressing the scrotum and penis, or return to exploring the area later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If there is embarrassment or uncertainty in the partner, the first experiment may be unsuccessful. But it is possible that subsequent research will bring more pleasure if the man can truly liberate himself. Help in such games will be special devices (finger attachments, vibrating bullets, small vibrator), which are presented in a wide variety in stores for adults. You can caress the g-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated with lubricant, and then inserted into the anus 5 cm or more. You should move in the direction of the pubis. You can find the sensitive "g" point by the tubercle on the wall of the rectum. And then you need to carefully massage it, observing the man’s reaction.
- Outside. Here you can carry out stimulation in two ways - orally or manually. A man will be delighted to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be alternated with passionate kisses. When caressing with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help improve gliding and give your partner more pleasure. You need to massage the area with the pad of your finger, using circular movements and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot will pulsate. To enhance pleasure, you need to influence it in time with the contractions. Adherents of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G zone was called the "million dollar spot", and sexologists developed special techniques for postponing ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunction.
Is caressing the G-spot beneficial for a man?
In fact, stimulation of the zone can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is done in a medical facility and does not always bring pleasant sensations, associating men with negativity and embarrassment. Caressing the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one are conducive to pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and bring more intimate overtones to them.
As for health benefits, regular caressing of the prostate will be a good prevention of diseases of the male organ. But only on the condition that at the moment there are no pathologies on this side, and the massage itself is carried out gently, without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to influence the prostate area if a man has chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostate hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary disorders, hemorrhoids, fissures in the anus, etc. If in doubt, it is optimal to use light oral stimulation, excludinganal and manual massage of the G-spot.